A Red Genitalia Candle (Male of Female to represent your lover)
A Black Figure Candle (Male of Female to represent your lover)
A length of black cord or cotton twine 9 times longer than the genitalia candle
A toothpick, needle or other sharp instrument to inscribe your candles.
3 Personal Items from your lover : Hair from head or pubic region, a small piece of worn underwear and a small piece of worn sock
2 Anointing Oils: Try Bend Over or Commanding for one oil and either No One But Me or Squint Oil (used by women) for the second
Take the Red Genitalia Candle and using a Toothpick or Needle, mark it with the name of your lover. Write his/her name all over the candles. Place his/her initials in any spaces the whole name will not fit. Once finished, dress the Genitalia Candle with the No One But Me Oil or Squint Oil - anointing the candle from wick to the base.
Take the Black Figure Candle and using a Toothpick or Needle, mark it with the name of your lover in the same fashion. Once finished, dress the Figure Candle with the Bend Over Oil or Commanding Oil - anointing the candle from base to wick.
From there, focus and concentrate on the Genitalia Candle as if it was you partner.....envision him/her excited....stroke it, play with it - get funky. Do your thing! Suddenly grab the Black Cord or Twine and begin wrapping and tying the Genitalia Candle. As you twist the cord around the candle begin knotting it randomly - a total of nine times.
Once completely tied up and bound, begin to burn the Black Figure Candle. For nine minutes focus your attention on the Genitalia Candle, commanding that no pleasure will arise from it without your "help". when finished, pinch the candle out (do not blow it out!). Do this for nine consecutive nights. Once the Figure Candle has burned out, keep the Genitalia Candle wrapped up in dark fabric and place it in a dark space, until you lover acts as you command them to. You can take the Genitalia Candle out and work it with a new Figure Candle the same way if your lover acts up at any point in time.