Take a jar put about 1 cup of flammable spirit in it (like alcohol or nail polish remover)and a pinch of cumin, dill, rosemary all together in it. Then you take 5 drops of caraway and cinnamon essential oils in the spirit with the herbs and 5 drops each on the inside of the lid, add a little of your personal energy and visualize your boy or girlfriend that you wish to be with. Close the jar and shake it up and set it in the sunlight for one hour. Then store the oil in a dark place. When you wish to use the oil put it in a heat proof container OUTSIDE and light it with a barbeque lighter. While it burns visualize the life you want with the person you love. If you get a pink flame it should bring your desire into manifestation.
*warning if you light the oil it will not be put out easily it usually will go out when the fire burns the oil out. And the fumes are flammable just like gasoline.*